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Stop settling and own what you want | Janet Mohapi-Banks

How many times have you decided that you wanted something only to talk yourself down or even out of it as the time to receiving it drew near?

We’re often taught all sorts of detrimental thinking as we grow up from “Don’t ask for too much so you don’t get disappointed”, to “two out of three ain’t bad”.

Fact is, two out of three is bad, because it doesn’t fulfil all of your desires and it therefore leaves you feeling a little depleted.

When we accept less we send the message to our subconscious that we don’t deserve to get everything we want or that getting everything we want is impossible.

The longer we continue to accept less, and the more comfortable we become with receiving less than we know we are worthy of, has a detrimental effect on our spirit and soul.

It leaves us with a subconscious emptiness that we can’t quite put our finger on.

If accepting less than you want has become a way of life, you need to change things up again and remember that you are an infinite being with an infinite capacity to receive. That goes for money, love, happiness, support and all the other things that you feel create the best life possible for you.

The reason that you have the desire is because it is already created in the unified energetic field and all you have to do is clear the way for it to land in your lap.

So what stops you from holding out until every box is checked?

Does the thought of “don’t be greedy” or the fear of “if I don’t take this, I’ll get nothing at all” creep in?

These are all scarcity thought patterns that have a base belief in a finite universe instead of the infinite universe that it is. This is a lack mentality used by scared people who don’t understand the abundance of the universe and everything in it.

You having money doesn’t take money away from anybody else. They literally print more money every single day. And right now, money is no more than a figure in a computer database. As numbers never run out, neither does money.

You wanting more money, or love, or joy, is not greedy. It’s your birthright. And the quickest way to bring it in is to realise and celebrate that which you already have.

Our state creates.

If we are living in a state of scarcity or fear, the frequency we emit will reflect that back to us and we will notice more scarcity. We program our minds to search it out and highlight it for us.

If you find that you feel lack and scarcity in your life, check what your thought patterns, beliefs, and behaviours are.

Are you settling because you fear you won’t get anything?

Do you trust that what you want is there and waiting for you to get out of the way so it can materialise?

Do you notice the myriad ways that abundance is already present in your life?

How can you clear the pathways and dissolve the perceived obstacles and accept nothing less that exactly what you want?

All of these questions can serve as journaling prompts for you take a deep dive into whether you are settling for less that everything that you desire and to get you into a state of abundance.

The more you tick every box of your desires the stronger your inner trust will become and the quicker you’ll manifest the life, business, and world that you’re creating.



Janet Mohapi-Banks works with experienced and ambitious female entrepreneurs who want to create a legacy. Mixing metaphysics, mindset, and energy clearings she gets to the root of what’s really stopping them from stepping into their power and creating the business, life, and legacy they know is theirs but they just can’t seem to get to. Connect with Janet: www.janetmohapibankscoaching.com

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